Values

After a series of interesting events I’ve been thinking a lot about values.  The values we hold as human beings, not physical values or material values, but values like ethics, morals, honesty, loyalty, reliability…….

Do you think society in general has changed with regard to these values? Sometimes it seems as if these are not important to people any more.  I am not talking about the cliched “used car salesman” and “politician” type values – we all know these – in general – do not exist.  It is an unfortunate fact, but to get somewhere in certain professions dishonesty pays.

What about friendships, relationships?  Do you think these values are important?  What, if any, are essential to maintain that status?  Could it be a relationship changer? Or do these things not bother you? Does it differ between friendships and relationships?

I thing we generally choose friends whose moral and ethical codes are similar to ours. But we all have found ourselves in the situation where, as you get to know someone better, you find things are not quite how you thought they were. People lie – by deliberate deception, or by omission, people promise things they have no intention of delivering (no matter how big or small), they say one thing yet do another, people let you down, are unreliable.

No-one is perfect, no-one does the right thing all the time. I guess it is just a case of finding a balance of what you like and what you are prepared to put up with, what you look for in a friendship, in a relationship.  We are all different, and that is what makes the world a lot more interesting.  But sadly, this does not stop us from expecting more from people.

 

 

Words

Aren’t words wonderful? They can lift you up, calm you, make you sad. They feed emotion, words feed the soul, help you feel less alone.

Words in many forms, spoken, written, sung. But today I’m thinking of poems. Perfect poems. They sum up how you feel, capture emotion. When you read poems you know its not just you who feels like that.

Soul food. In words.

Currently I’m loving the words written by:
Erin Hanson
R M Drake
Victoria Erikson
Tyler Knott Gregson

My place of peace

We all need places of peace, don’t we?  Somewhere you can go and regenerate your batteries, where you feel calm and centered afterwards.

A number of places do this for me.

Beaches. I could sit on the beach and watch the waves for hours.  Mesmerising.

Mountains. Isn’t it funny how for something so solid and static, mountains are forever changing? The light, time of day, weather, cloud cover.

Sunrises and sunsets. Always.

But here is a place I have visited, and love, and I love my photo. The blue of the water, the “house” that makes you feel you could live there, the peaceful surroundings. Water, trees, peace and quiet.  This is the Eibsee.  A mountain lake, just outside Grainau in Bavaria.  One of those heaven on earth places.Eibsee

Gotta start somewhere!

Well everything starts at the beginning, doesn’t it?  And so with my new blog.  I think this will take on a life of its own once I’ve found my blogfeet, or at least I am hoping it will.  After all, when I started Twitter, I didn’t have a clue what I wanted out of it, or how it would pan out, and yet somehow I hit my stride. I found a way of expressing myself, found people to follow and people who followed me, and so it grows.

So, here’s to new beginnings.  This will be a mixture of opinions (just opinions, we’re all entitled!), comments on life, food, and random photos. And I will be amazed if anyone reads this!